Discord: log node-reported stream state; remove a radio channel or a server

- handle_actual logs every node-reported state TRANSITION (not heartbeats)
  with stream/node/guild/channel/token ids and the node's error text: info
  for connected/connecting/stopped, warning for error, and a dedicated
  "radio bot X failed to log in on node N: <reason>" line for login_failed.
  The node's reason code is now stored in actual.code and shown next to the
  error on Settings > Discord and the node page.
- Remove a radio channel permanently: streams.delete_stream stops it through
  desired state first (node republished without it, token -> releasing per
  #216, freed on the node's ack), then deletes the doc in a transaction that
  refuses if the channel was restarted in between. DELETE
  /discord/streams/{id} (platform admin) and DELETE
  /discord/nodes/{node}/streams/{id} (admin or org owner, same org + node
  only; operators can still stop, not remove). Audited.
- Remove a server: DELETE /discord/guilds/{id} (admin) deletes every radio
  channel in it the same way, then tombstones discord_guilds (org_id None +
  unlinked_at, #218 semantics, plus removed_at) so it never falls back to
  DISCORD_UNLINKED_GUILD_ORG_ID; the admin page hides it, and /drb link or the
  admin link brings it back. Optional leave_radio_bots makes pool bots and the
  server's org's own BYO bots leave via Discord REST; the DRB server bot stays
  until kicked, and the UI says so. Audited.
- UI: Remove (with confirm) on Radio channels, Servers and the node page list.

Refs #213, #221

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

drb-frontend/lib/discordPicker.ts

@@ -22,7 +22,7 @@ export interface DiscordStreamView {
   mode: "persistent" | "adhoc" | null;
   node_id: string | null;
   node_name: string | null;
-  actual: { state: StreamState; error: string | null; since?: string; at?: string } | null;
+  actual: { state: StreamState; error: string | null; code?: string | null; since?: string; at?: string } | null;
   updated_at: string | null;
 }
 
@@ -56,6 +56,8 @@ export interface DiscordJoinOptions {
   system_id: string | null;
   system_name: string | null;
   can_control: boolean;
+  /** Permanent removal: platform admin or the org owner only (operators can stop, not remove). */
+  can_remove?: boolean;
   limits: { node_max: number; node_used: number; guild_max: number };
   guilds: DiscordGuildOption[];
   streams: DiscordStreamView[];